I know this is a difficult question! Before answering, I suggest you read this episode, which I wrote very sincerely, I put a piece of my soul into it.

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While there are tests for Down’s or other types of disability that can be done during pregnancy, there is nothing for autism that can predict it.

Mom will find out a little later, after the child turns one and a half years old, because that’s when the first signs appear. It’s a surprise that changes your life down to the last detail, and it’s up to each of us how we react to this change. Sometimes I miss when David was a kid. At that time, I had not even heard the word “autism”. I had worries like any mother: sleep, eat, read a book, take him to the park every day to… At that time I was also different, completely different than now: maybe more selfish, maybe more focused on a career, perhaps more indifferent to many things around. Autism changed me in an absolutely incredible way, because in any family where a child with autism grows up, there are parents with all the sharp feelings, sensitive, patient and full of hope.

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